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Using body language to attract

The Law of Attraction tends to focus a lot on thoughts and words. But speaking is only 10% of how we communicate. So what about the other 90%?

Well, it’s all in your body language.

And here’s the important thing to remember: The mind-body relationship is very strong.

That means that your body language will reflect your inner state. If you are having a bad day, it will show on your body—your feet will drag, your shoulders will droop, your head will hang lower, etc. If you are in a good mood, you will walk faster, with your head up, smiling, shoulders and back straight…you get the picture.

But this relationship works both ways. That means that if you want to change how you feel on the inside, you can consciously work to change the outside—your body language.

If you are trying to attract confidence and success, then your body language has to say “confidence and success.”

There are some easy techniques you can learn in order to use your body language to stay positive and build your attraction muscles. But the first step is recognizing that this mind-body connection exists, that it’s extremely powerful, and that you can use it to your advantage with the Law of Attraction.

So first, I want you to study yourself. Pay attention to the small details of body language:

  • How are you standing/sitting?
  • Do you move your hands a lot when you speak?
  • Do you have good posture?
  • What does your body language say about you?

There are certain gestures that are “wimpy” and reveal your lack of confidence right away. If you are in the habit of doing these, beware! We will talk about ways to change wimpy body language to confident body language in a bit.

The first one is: The shrug. That shoulder movement tells people that you don’t know what’s going on, or that you don’t even care.

It’s even worse when you add the palms-facing-upward gesture. That says, “What do you want from me? I’m not responsible for any of this, and I don’t want to take the time to figure out a solution. There’s nothing I can do about my problems—or yours!”

The second is: The finger-point. When you point the finger and blame something or someone else for your problems, you’re not helping anyone.

You’re not finding solutions, and you’re not empowering yourself by blaming. Both of these are examples of negative body language—and they are definitely hurting your success with the Law of Attraction.

Once you recognize what your body language is, it’s time to make some changes. There are simple changes you can make that will instantly make you feel more confident.

  • First, walk with confidence. Confident people walk as if they own the place. They project good thoughts outward because their heads are held high, they are standing up straight with their shoulders back and stomach tucked in, and they are taking deliberate steps—not shuffling.
  • Walk at your own pace—don’t try to keep pace with the crowd. And look forward, not down.
  • And don’t forget to smile!

You can conduct your own experiment to see how well this works. Try walking into work one day with a “down” posture—shuffling, shoulders slumped, head down—and pay attention to how people respond to you.

On a different day, walk in with your new confident walk—do people react differently? What changes can you see in yourself and those people around you?

Another easy and simple gesture that successful people use is called “steepling.” It’s done by pressing your fingertips together and keeping your palms separate. President Obama, along with many other confident people use steepling to convey confidence. It’s a small thing, but it makes a big difference.

This week, project confidence by changing your body language. Just by changing two of your body language habits, you can change your entire mood!

Go from wimpy and blaming and negative to confident, successful, and positive—and watch how your new positive body language attracts new people and things like a magnet!

People are attracted to confidence, and remember—90% of communication is non-verbal!
So make your body language positive and confident, and start attracting with that huge 90%!

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