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More about body language and modeling

Since your body language is so important to your level of confidence and success with the Law of Attraction, here are some more techniques for building your attraction muscles by changing your body language.

Probably the most helpful technique when looking to change your body language is finding a role model.

It can be hard to change something when you don’t know exactly what or how to change it. So find someone you can relate to. They can be a celebrity, a politician, or anyone who spends a lot of time in the public eye. Just about anyone you think radiates confidence, whose success you admire.

It could be Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Barack Obama, Madonna, the Queen of England—or a combination of two or three people.

Now your job is to study these people. Look at pictures, videos, movies they’ve made, and study them. Take out a pen and take notes if you have to.

Here’s what I want you to notice:

  • Facial expressions. How do they smile? What kind of facial expressions do they make?
  • Posture. How do they stand? What’s the position of their feet, shoulders, arms, and head?
  • Hand gestures. What kind of movements do they make with their hands?
  • Walk. How do they walk with confidence? Fast? Slow?
  • Voice. What’s their tone of voice? How fast do they speak? How often do they pause? How much expression and strength do they convey with their words? What kind of words do they choose? How loud are they speaking?

Once you take notes on all of these things, it’s your turn to practice. What you want to do is use this confident person as your role model, and mimic their confident habits.

Position yourself in front of a mirror, and practice standing, walking, moving, and talking as confidently as your role model. It may take a lot of practice to get it right, but don’t worry—just keep going. Also don’t worry if you feel silly—there’s no one watching you!

Modeling someone else’s body language is really a case of “fake it till you make it.”

The more you pretend to have confidence, the more you act outwardly like you are a confident, successful person, the more it will begin to feel real. And the more it feels real, the more it becomes real—and the more effects it has on your life.

You are building your confidence muscles by practicing, which will build your attraction muscles too. Because your level of confidence is directly connected to your attraction abilities. That’s why, when we talk about building your attraction muscles, we talk about building your confidence, too.

It’s all connected. The way you feel about yourself has a direct impact on the strength and amount you can attract into your life with the Law of Attraction.

So if you don’t feel very confident, don’t be surprised if the Law of Attraction isn’t working for you. And instead of getting frustrated, take a deep breath and do something about it.

There are easy things you can do today to build your confidence.

  • Using the Hypnotic Secret is one of them.
  • Following the exercises listed above is another.

This week, do something that boosts your confidence and makes you feel good. Find a role model and try to integrate at least one of their signature “moves” into your life. Try it out this week, and don’t get discouraged if you feel silly, or fake—that just means it’s working.

Just keep telling yourself that with every new move you make, you are becoming more confident. Try not to let yourself get self-conscious. Tell yourself it is just an experiment—what do you have to lose?

And go for it! Pretty soon those confident moves will become second nature. And that will lead to a greater feeling of confidence inside, too.

And when you feel confident, you know you can make anything happen. That is when the Law of Attraction magic happens.

So get to it!

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