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Making mistakes and your “attraction muscles”

How do you usually feel when you make a mistake? Are you the kind of person who has trouble admitting they were wrong? Do you beat yourself up and call yourself names when you mess up? Do you find it impossible to turn off that little voice in your head that tells you you’re a failure when you make a mistake?

If this sounds like you, then you need to be able to own your mistakes before you can use the Law of Attraction successfully. Each mistake that you learn from, instead of reacting badly, will strengthen your attraction muscles and give you more confidence.

Not sure how to do it?

Keep reading…

First, let’s define “mistake.”

Mistakes are simply ways in which we learn.

At least, that’s how successful people look at it. When successful, confident people do well, they integrate that success into their identity, using it to build their confidence and fuel further achievements. And when they make mistakes, they think about them as just a result of their behavior.

This is key, so I will say it again:

Confident people know that mistakes do not reflect or change who they are as a person.

They own their mistakes, learn the lessons from them, and move on.

But most people have this backwards. When they succeed, they write it off as luck, or a fluke, or an accident. It has nothing to do with who they are as a person. They are not responsible for their success.

But they DO take ALL the credit for their failures. They tell themselves something was bound to go wrong because they can never do anything right.

Now which attitude is going to attract more success? The one that believes you are inherently successful? Or the one that believes you are a failure no matter what?

The answer is pretty obvious.
Now the question becomes—what can you do to change your attitude?
The first step is to own your mistakes.
Next time you make a mistake, or mess up, here’s what you should do:
Remember that mistakes are simply a function of your actions—not a part of who you are.

  • Ask yourself—what can I learn from this mistake?
  • What lessons can I take away from the experience?
  • Ask yourself what you will do differently next time.
  • How will you change your actions to get a different result?

Adjust your behavior based on what you learned. Put into action the lessons you learned, and see if you can get a more positive outcome. Once you learn how to do this, you will begin seeing more and more successes and fewer mistakes. That’s because you’ll learn from every mistake, and you won’t make the same mistake twice.

So when you start seeing successes, here’s how you should respond:

  • Take the success and make it part of you. If you were able to attract something, no matter how small, it’s because of YOU—not an accident. It happened because you are successful.
  • Congratulate yourself! Give yourself a pat on the back, and celebrate that success.
  • Now, ask yourself—how can I improve even more? What can I do next time to get better results?
    Go for it! Take action and see if you can do better than before.

And as you start owning your successes and learning from your mistakes, the successes will happen more often. As you start celebrating the small victories, they will snowball and become bigger and bigger.

Because that’s just how the Universe works.
Don’t be afraid of making mistakes.
Whenever you take action, you will either achieve your goal, or you won’t—but you’ll learn something along the way that will help you next time.

Don’t try to avoid making mistakes—just do your best to learn from them.
So this week, take action and don’t be afraid of making a mistake.
Follow the step by step process above when you make a mistake or fail—and when you succeed, too.
Your attraction muscles will get stronger and you will feel more confident.

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Dõv Baron is an advisor to corporate, creative and personal leaders around the world.

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